“I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me, and 90% how I react to it.”
-Charles Swindoll
Perspective never ceases to be the biggest factor in handleing stress. No matter what you face in life, your perspective will determine how you get through it. It seems, however, that we all struggle with actually maintaining perspective in the heat of the moment. True reality seems to escape our grasp whenever we are grasping for hope.
If it were always easy to remember how good life is, even in the bad times, then there truly would never be any bad times. Your unrealistic attitude on relevance would always allow you to stay above negative situations. This just is not the way that we were created. However, maybe there is something to be said about not focusing on avoding bad times, but rather on dealing with bad times. If we are prepared to react to the curveballs that life throws at us, then maybe the stress won’t seem so bad after all.